I've been teaching a budgeting class for several years and I'm passionate about financial literacy for both kids and adults. I've seen first hand how bad decisions regarding credit can turn an otherwise productive life into a merry-go-round of stress, depression and anger. Before the early 1950's, credit cards didn't exist at all, and then they were only for the most credit worthy consumers.
As the credit industry expanded, Citi made its mark by soliciting customers with credit just barely below the industry standards, charging them considerably higher rates but still achieving relatively low default risks. Throughout the 90's and 2000's, the expansive availability of credit was everywhere. Jokes popped up about dogs getting offers. Business boomed. Housing boomed. And we spent and spent.
As with television, I know many people who recognize the problems of credit cards but very few are willing to do without them. Today's average order at McDonald's is 25-50% larger than before they took credit cards, even adjusted for inflation. We have racked up more ways to spend more money on more stuff that we need less than any other time in history.
So, what does it mean to jump off that merry-go-round? Pay cash. Even sitting in the restaurant where I'm writing this blog entry, I overhear a father telling a small child he can't have a soda because they didn't pay for sodas. Tough to imagine adults having the same hard conversations with their spouses about what they can and can't afford, or pay for.
In my class, I teach people to go off the grid. Cut up their credit cards- physically shred them if they're unwilling to close the account. Pay cash for everything possible, checks only when cash isn't an option. Reduce their bills by eliminating unnecessary spending. Be strategic about the spending they must do. And above all, recognize what emotional triggers get set off by money.
Credit, post-2008 Apocalypse, is going to be tougher to convince people to live without. I urge people, therefore, to consider these steps:
1) Do the math on what you're spending. If you're three months into a $150/month cell phone contract that will cost you $200 to cancel, paying the fee and waiting for 5 weeks puts you financially ahead. If your actual concern is safety, consider a pre-paid phone or the lowest possible number of minutes (30). Saying you control the cost of the meals by eating them all out only makes sense if you refuse to keep staples on hand and have to buy everything (including spices) new each time. Strategic meal planning can be extremely beneficial to know what to buy and to not end up with meat balls, feta and grape juice as a meal.
2) Give yourself permission to jump out of the world's expectations. The world wants you to have a credit card. They want you to spend, spend, spend! In the mid-1990's, the Japanese government created billions of yen out of thin air to devalue their currency and keep Japanese exports cheap compared to American dollars. Unfortunately, our government decided to follow suit, disregarding the fact that (as a non-manufacturing economy) we want a strong dollar. Weakness, when your economy thrives on consumption, leads to short term bubbles and extreme pain when they reliably burst. Not only does using credit give you psychological permission to spend more, marketing of everything from burgers to LCD TVs beckons you to do so. Then, you can look forward to paying usurious interest rates as you strive to pay them off with deflated dollars. The world doesn't want you to live debt free! But, to quote America's favorite no-debt guru Dave Ramsey, "if you live like no one else, you can live like no one else!"